Bruce P. Grether
The Penis Pioneers!
You are one of those special 21st Century men who fits this description. For in today's crazy world the rate of change has gone exponential, still there are aspects of both human nature and Nature itself that we can count on. For example, Nature tends to repeat successful patterns, such as the mushroom, and the human penis repeats the form similarly.
To comprehend the present better, look back into antiquity. For longer than we can measure, men have been fascinated with their own penises, and obsessed also with each other's penises. In ancient Greece, the source of the pottery design below, actual men who liked to go wild and naked into he woods to masturbate were called "satyrs." They became mythologized as beings similar to the Great God Pan.
Now, in the 21st Century, many men find a special joy in going into wild, natural places to get naked and enjoy arousal. As a Penis Pioneer, you can move outside of the ordinary flow of time. Male arousal connects you with your source in Nature itself, the source of everything. That's the basic meaning of the name "Pan," "everything" or "including all."
In today's world we also have the special privilege of exploring how the human penis and the delicious stimulation of this magnificent organ can not only alter and expand our consciousness, but explored deeply and to the heights possible, it's highly beneficial! Like everything important that happens, today's male masturbation is a global phenomenon.
This really has nothing to do with how you can label yourself according to common beliefs about male sexuality. Indeed, many men are still conditioned by porn to imagine that the primary purpose of erotic activity is to connect with other humans. The belief that masturbation is inferior, or a substitute, actually gets the realities of your erotic potential upside-down and backwards! Don't buy into those porn script and assumptions.
Your body is specifically designed by millions of years of evolution as a means to explore and realize your potential as an embodied being. This is not primarily about controlling or dominating anyone else, giving pleasure to another or getting it, even though your penis is designed as a display to show to other men and to encourage their arousal with your own.
This pioneering enterprise begins with you, with your own body, your sensations. In order to become a great lover of other men (or even women) you really need to practice self-pleasure as self-love and master this first, though culture and media get it backwards. See how the Phallic Brothers above share their arousal with each other? They are practicing…
Explore how incredibly good your aroused penis can make you feel. You become a more confident, balanced, happier man that you can ever be if you put the cart before the horse and make sexual interaction with others your priority before you master your own body, your penis, and the indescribable ecstasy it provides you when given your full attention.
In the case of the rather hirsute and cute young "cowboy" above, you can definitely SEE a shift between his slight challenge to you, a touch of uncertainty on the left about your reaction, and on the right, fully revealed, though a smidgen of shyness remains in his smile, he knows full well how fully you appreciate his exquisite erection. He knows he arouses you!
Today's male masturbators definitely explore a New Erotic Frontier, which is why we can be called Penis Pioneers, as this handsome and flexible young fellow demonstrates. However, if you read my GOLDEN PHALLUS book, you will learn that the ancient Egyptian Phallic God Atum, the Complete One who constantly creates the world by masturbating, first ejaculated into his own mouth! In my 20s and early 30s I did this quite often myself…
The handsome young friend of mine in the photo above has caught himself in this selfie at a moment when the intensity of his sensation can clearly be seen not only in his exquisite erection, but on his face in the throes of self-induced passionate oblivion.
Penis Pioneers are the men who boldly show their faces, as well as their aroused genitals and the manner in which they love to stimulate their penises. To truly qualify as such an explorer, you must push the possibilities beyond all your previous experience, aware that far greater pleasures await you when you can break your habits and try new things.
Penis Pioneers are men who may deliberately take a hiatus from the common ways in which men interact sexually with fellow men, as scripted by porn, and almost inevitably involving domination, submission, ego games, competition, insertion. Take a break and focus on refining your masturbation skills, which includes genuine Phallic Brotherhood in which you enjoy your erection in parallel with that of a fellow man or men.
Though I seldom employ photos men ejaculating on this blog, because I love to encourage "edging" and even more, actual semen retention, there are no rules, no absolutes in the practices I encourage. To explore anal stimulation, the multiplication of bliss possible when you stimulate your prostate as well as your penis, takes you Beyond Words!
Consider this pioneering awareness: your body contains only a few major external features that exist as the one and only only along the central line of your bilateral symmetry ( rather than reflected in a pair left and right): your tongue, your chin and Adam's apple, your navel, penis, and anus. All are specially sensitive.
In a real sense, your tongue with its sensitivity and versatility, which can be pulled back inside or extended out beyond your lips, is like an "upper penis" for your body. This is surely one reason why kissing is so profound. It's not unlike the glory of penis-on-penis frottage.
The beautiful young man above has the look of a 21st Century Hippie or Flower Child at first glance. But notice the shaded and nuanced character of his upper arm tatt, the graphic tribal quality of the one on his ankle. Plus this youthful Penis Pioneer shares his majestic erection with a direct and calm gaze nourished by his experience just as the bold veins of his shaft irrigate his erect penis with abundant blood.
Here another young Penis Pioneer appears totally of these times with his backwards ball cap, scruff and abundant natural body hair. Thank goodness for the return of facial hair and male pubic hair in the New Millennium! Both are parts of the natural equipment of male eroticism. This fellow also employs a nice backhand stroke and the shine of his erection makes clear that he's well-lubricated with coconut oil, just as I taught him to use.
This handsome, bearded gentleman is gone beyond all mental categories in blissful, ineffable sensations so intense that, though he has been stimulated by observing a fellow masturbator on his monitor, now his own oblivion has closed his eyes in order to fully and deeply savor how great his erection can feel in his hands!
The same gentleman here moves from his office chair to his bed, to fully explore the Erotic Frontier of conscious, deliberate and purposeful stimulation of his own penis without the distraction of external imagery. Rather than get stuck in the vicarious digital pleasures of porn or the webcam, as a Penis Pioneer he has entered the Undiscovered Country of full mindful presence during self-pleasure as self-love.
Of course nothing in this Brave New World of Male Masturbation that we now pioneer with Mindful Masturbation, Male Erotic Alchemy, Male SoloSex Magick, and Golden Phallus Yoga, is either/or… it is always BOTH/AND. So whether solo, or with a Phallic Brother, by example, sharing your face, your body, genitals and arousal, you show men the way to a future better than anything we have ever known before.
That future involves living beyond labels for your sexuality, and it requires that you learn to love your fellow men, their arousal, genitalia, bodies and faces, not in the ordinary romantic sense so much as in genuine brotherly love.
Peace & (((HUGS))),